Respect & Appreciation Are The Keys to Happy Relationships!

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I want to ask a question to couples or married couples that have been together for more than 3 years. “When was the last time you gave a compliment to your partner?”

It often happens that even though there was something that you respected him for in the beginning of the relationship, you start to take it for granted, and instead, you start to see only bad sides of him, but it is important that you don’t forget how you felt at first and keep giving compliments to each other.

Respect and appreciation, and showing them to your partner. From what I see from the happy married couples around me, those are the most important keys to the happy relationships.

Whatever it is, it’s important to try to give a compliment to your partner

It sounds like “a secret to raise a kid” but actually, especially to your partner, it is important to give a compliment. What do you like about your partner? What was attractive about him?

You might come up with various good sides of him such as the fact that he is funny, entertaining, or knowledgable. Never take them for granted and let them go.

Of course, you don’t have to give a compliment every time, but sometimes tell him in words, “You are so nice. I respect you.” If you are shy, it’s okay to jokingly say it.

He might be surprised but it won’t make him feel bad. Instead, he might reaffirm good sides of you.

Even the bad sides of him used to be adorable…?

After being together for a long time, it is easy for you to take his good for granted and get frustrated by his bad. But when you started dating, didn’t you think that his good was deeply moving, and his bad was so adorable that you wanted to help?

The saying “you partner is a mirror that reflects yourself” is so true that if you change your ways to think or treat your partner, it can make him remember how he felt in the beginning of the relationship so easily.

Your partner is someone who you will be with for a long time from now. In this occasion, don’t you want to create an opportunity to respect each other?

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